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Posted:Apr 30, 2021 7:57 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2021 5:8 pm

I learned this a few years ago and I've made it my mission in life.
We all have days when wee just don't want get up and we don't want go work or do the things we have do as adults. However if you think of this one thing somedays it makes it all worth while.
" do one thing every day that scares you"
After all.....Opinions are a dime a dozen, validation is for parking, loyalty isn't a word but a life style and life is too short to leave the key to happiness in someone else pocket!
The best moments in life.....
Posted:Apr 30, 2021 7:47 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2021 12:34 pm

Are the ones you can't tell anyone about!
when adults act like spoiled teenagers.
Posted:Apr 25, 2021 6:13 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2021 7:57 pm

I usually trust my gut when it comes to meeting people. You just get a sense of who they are and how their first approach goes.
Once in a while I let one slip by. I think that on this forum meeting people is tricky. It's all visual because lets face it, you can fake personality for a little while but eventually when/if you meet it shines through.
Rejection is so much harder after you've met. For me if I met someone and they didn't feel an attraction well then I move on. Some on the other hand tend to get ugly and mean. Rejection is not easy "I get it" but it's part of life.
You can't someone begging them to meet you and think it's going to work out. If someone doesn't reply take it for what it is and MOVE ON. Calling someone names and insulting them does not soften the blow. Just makes you look even more pathetic than the reasons you were already rejected!
My wants, desires, attraction are mine to decide and no matter what you say to try to make yourself feel better just reaffirms my decision to not continue the friendship!
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The ugly truth.
Posted:Mar 3, 2015 4:51 pm
Last Updated:Mar 6, 2015 12:07 pm

I have known a few women and men in my life that have given up. What I mean is that they have given up trying to look good and feel good. Not only for them self but for their significant other as well.
Why you might ask?
They got married. Yes married. Marriage is not a ticket to give up.
One friend actually said "now that I am married why should I try to look good, for who? " why waste money on makeup and hair products?
Are you kidding me!! This is the kind of stupid shit that ticks me off. No one wants to look at a slob who doesn't fix herself up and walks around looking like the dogs breakfast!
The other friend of mine who said something similar. Only this was in regards to her weight. She recently got married 2 years ago and has packed on a good 50 lbs. Not that I am perfect but hey I put in a hell of a try.....I watch what I eat and work out on a regular basis. Why because it makes ME feel good. I think a little try gets you respect at work and in social situations as well. I have never been the kind of lady that does things to please a man. The exception being a few sexual positions then hey it's necessary sometimes.
But here is my thought of the day.
If these friends of mine were still searching for Mr. right or Mr. right now then they would still give a shit. So why give up? Do you not want your partner to be attracted to you not want to feel good about you really think it's that big a burden, are you not embarrassed to go out in public looking like you just got out of bed?
If married people still had the want and desire to feel that spark and attraction for one another or for someone new for that fact, then maybe more people would put a little more try into their day! Ok so I see how this is going to piss some people off and I see a lot of hate emails, but step back and I not correct, do we all not need to put forth a little more try in life? Maybe we would all be just a little happier. Don't misunderstand this rant and think I am putting down fat people or ugly people....You can be thin or overweight and still put forth a little try! I bet that a good percentage of people who still try in life are having an affair? and maybe just maybe this is the key to living a happy and healthy life. Just my thought for the day, it's not pretty.....
It's worth a laugh
Posted:Feb 10, 2015 9:22 am
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2015 3:37 pm
why do we......
Posted:Nov 9, 2011 5:56 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2013 4:26 am

Always fall for the wrong person. I know he's wrong and will always be wrong but something about him drives me insane!!! Maybe it's the old saying " we want what we can't have"
less that ideal summer fun.....
Posted:Jul 22, 2011 5:15 pm
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2013 2:12 pm

I have to admit that my summer has been less than exciting....well it's been exciting( in a vacation going places doing things kind of way) just not in the way I need and desire

I hope to find some excitement soon!
am I Real?
Posted:Jun 20, 2011 5:22 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2015 6:01 pm

This is a question I get all the time.....
Yes I am. But just because I can't possibly meet every man who sends me an email doesn't make me any less real. As much fun as it might be to meet you all I am selective with who I choose to meet. Some have waited weeks, months and yes even years (thanks by the way *wink wink*)
Only once in a little experiment.....did I try to meet someone off here and meet in person in less than 24 hrs. The meet was less than satisfactory, lesson learned!!!
I am not hung up on looks or size but a nice does ext extra special attention.
I tend to always meet men who don't even have a profile picture. I tend to read profiles rather than judge by a nice strong chest, firm arms great butt handsome face.....where was I going again. Oh right Not at all hung up on what one looks like, Personality gets me every time!
As a friend from here once told me I was not misleading at all in my profile. I am what you see and read....100% real, 100% crazy and 100% smart ass 100% no strings 100% genuine but most of all 100% fun!!!
and he's back!
Posted:Jun 19, 2011 4:39 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2021 5:8 pm

I have this "friend" who comes in and out of my life....weeks months and lately it's been years. We go one maybe 2 years no contact then out of the blue he's back. I am never the one to initiate the first contact only because I know that no good will come of it. We are so bad for each other. He and I are brutally honest to the other, neither of us take it too personal (at least I hope not).
This time things for me are different. When I heard from him I was not my usual excited self. More like I am less than excited to see him. Maybe I am beyond this kind of friendship. Or perhaps it's because the last few times we have see each other he's been less than "up" to the job!
Or because I am tired of listening to him complain about his life that he refuses to fix. I believe if you choose to live a miserable life then don't make others listen to you complain about it. I've told him this but it did not phase him one bit. How unfortunate for me. The only thing I can do is keep him "busy" so he can't talk!!! hahahaha
Oh well should make for an interesting week at best.
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this is new.....
Posted:Jun 12, 2011 6:12 pm
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2011 1:53 pm

my new matches suddenly show gay men and a lot of female profiles......
This is new, perhaps a glitch in the system.....or perhaps someone is trying to tell me something?
Fulfilling your so bitter sweet!
Posted:Jun 6, 2011 4:24 pm
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2011 6:01 pm

Last week I had the opportunity to live out my fantasy. I have to say it was better than I had ever expected!!!
Now that I have stopped smiling and settled into a grin, I can't help but feel like something is missing. What I mean is that I fantasized for so long about it, lived it over and over and now it's on the completed list I feel as if something is missing.

I guess the only cure is to find a new fantasy and hope it turns out the same
ways not to get my attention.....
Posted:Jun 5, 2011 9:09 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2021 5:8 pm

Hey sup?
Hey you!
let's fuck...
Text me (followed by your number)
calling me your Homie, or home grl.
I'd like to lick you.
asking me what r u looking for? (read my profile it's quite clear)
sending me cock pictures
sending me pictures of your cock in some chicks mouth.
sending me pictures of you wearing women's panties or any other article of clothing.
sending me countless emails asking why I don't respond.

I know not ALL the men on here do this....but there are a select few who do. Not that they would take the time to read any of this. So I guess this was a pointless blog.
Posted:Jun 3, 2011 1:50 pm
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2011 3:40 pm

Last night I was on my way out and I got a run in my stockings. Women you know how much that can piss you off, especially when your already running late. So I made a quick stop to the department store and picked up a new pair plus an extra spare just incase. After my purchase I went back to my car raised my skirt high enough to remove the ruined pair. I was wearing thigh high stockiness so I figured this would be an easy task to do in the car. It was..... for the most part except attaching them to the garters in the back was a little more tricky.........after a few minutes and a few different positions to get them done up I was set. Good to go. Except oops.....I looked over and noticed a man sitting in his truck next to me. I must have went 10 shades of red. I just gave him quite a show and not even realized.
The crap we do when in a rush! I was in such a hurry I never even noticed him sitting there when I walked right by and got in the car. Good thing I didn't have to take my skirt off

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