If ur chumming for a free piece of ass, NSA or FWB kinda sex, stop reading and keep it moving bc I'm not that, lol. If ur married or not yet divorced, I'm not gonna be ur side piece. I respect myself and know my worth--if u don't, ur not my match. Yes, I def have a strong appetite for kinky side of things but I do have a moral compass, the two are not mutually exclusive of the other. Seek a man who actually wants to date me, yes---date me--and who isn't afraid of being an equal part of a real relationship--is emotionally available & not looking to saddle me with baggage he hasn't taken time to deal with. I have a past; you have a past--I just don't allow mine to rule or ruin my current life and relationships--and I don't use my past as an excuse to not connect well with others. If you do, keep it moving, lol, bc I don't have time or energy for that kinda victim mindset and I won't make room for it. Newbie to the kinky or Fet community/lifestyle. If u don't k know what that is, stop reading. Identify as submissive. Seek a man who is age 47-60, lives near me in Wichita or nearby surrounding area of Kansas. Prefer man who is naturally alpha, high sex drive, honest and whose thirst for adventure and kinky fun matches or even surpasses mine. Keen to explore lots of kinks and indulge our fantasies. Strong appetite for kinky play, sex and all things erotic, naughty, far from vanilla and even taboo. Is that too naughty for you? I'm a really good girl who likes to be really bad too. Maybe I like a good spanking, lol! Me: Strawberry blonde, blue eyes, BBW with curves in all the right places and 5'9". Prefer men taller than me. Open to pick-up play for now til find rt connection with the uncommon partner and rare power/energy exchange I seek to experience. MUST be a man who is emotionally available to have that kind of connection. Not interested in man using his past as an excuse. If ur still recovering, healing from ur past, u should NOT be on here or in any kinda relationship until u have dealt with ur past hurts. Tou don't want a woman whose all caught up with drama from her past. Not just seeking partner but seek also new kinky friends. Let's chat and see where it goes! I am just a free member for now, so contact me via chat if ur really interested..can't see likes or who liked me, etc. Be direct and start a convo with me!

My Ideal Person My ideal play partner is above all else, HONEST, confident, a good communicator and listener, has integrity, respects himself and me, will compromise, makes me smile and laugh a lot, is respected & known by others in local Fet community or willing to be and is open to on-going kink education in both his role and will support me in my pursuit of same. Seek a local (in KS, near Wichita area) experienced, vetted Master/Dom, Rigger/Rope Top who is not looking for an easy lay. Ideal partner will not be threatened by my intelligence, ability to speak & write well, shares my intense sex drive for kinky adventures and will invest in our relationship as a giver, not just a taker, unafraid that he must earn both my trust and respect rather than me giving that automatically.