Mid-40s, single for six years. I've never been and am never going to be a size 10 - I'm a plus size (18-20) and quite happy as I am. Don't be mistaken and do the 'curvy' bullshit - I'm not curvy, I'm chubby - there's a difference! If you're after a short, slim little thing look elsewhere. Despite being single, I'm not looking for a full-time man - had my fill of long-term and living with someone. It's taken me a while to find my spirit and independence again, so at best I want something casual but regular with someone who isn't going to mess me about and disappear. I don't do one nighter's - I've done it once and it was a disaster, so never again. I need some sort of connection with someone before I'll even think of giving them my number, never mind meeting them. I won't respond to dick pics or 'are you horny?'. I know this is AFF but put a little bit of effort in, please! In short, be decent to me and I'll be decent back. If I decide you're a dick it's done.

My Ideal Person Not going to lie, physical attraction is important, but someone who can write is even better. I don't care about your six pack if you can't string a sentence together. Sense of humour is a must - I like to laugh.

I'm 5' 7", so be aware that I may be taller than you. It's not an issue for me if I am, but it's a heads up if you have a Napoleon complex going on.

Racists, homophobes, etc need not apply.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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