What am I not looking.for: AFF to be my Job. I am no longer into viewing profiles nor am I into who has hotlisted me, viewed me or flirted.with me. Those days are done. The ONLY way to get my attention is to speak. Write a message. I am not looking for self centered, narcissistic, self indulgent women who have suddenly discovered they are sentient sexual beings. I am not looking for wanna be porn stars or women who think so little of men that they think by posting countless images of their cunts, that wanton depraved and deprived men will pander and grovel in desperation to get there. Not saying there aren't enough idiotic mindless men to play the game. Just saying I'm not one of them. Never have been one. Never will be one. The world wrapped up inside her plastic box might have worked in the 60's. But I have zero interest. So if you are a small thinking, self.centered bitch who believes that because you've got the pussy you call the shots. Well you ultimately get what you put out there. Enjoy. But pass me by. It may appear it's all about the pussy. But it's not. You know it I know it. The price we pay to be mindlessly and inextricably woven? Is far too great in all but the rarest of instances. I'm not offended by anything you do. I do not pigeon hole or judge you for finding your pathway to dopamine release. If I am looking for anything on this site I am looking for a partner. That when I look into her eyes I see.an architecture of amazing accomplishment of personal growth. Worth. Esteem. Strength, empathy and resolve. A thoughtful being. A powerful being a sensual and erotic playful being. But mostly a well rounded Woman with many passions. Who is exuberant in her living.. Who understands that life isn't about knowing all things. But that mystery and not knowing satiates the soul, is natural.and welcoming. OK. I have exhausted far too much bandwidth. I love sex, exploring fantasies but not with just anyone. And if all you have to say for yourself is a click to a flirt or click to a hotlist. Frankly just pass me by. This life is far to beautiful. Staring into screens is antithetical to living that life. It is want, hope, fantasy, expectation and a dream.of being complete. I will take my chances in the street. Aloha. Now get out of here . .

My Ideal Person I spend a lot of time these days CROWNING AROUND. YOU are healthy in your heart and your mind. And Crowning Aroun is an FB page. And it is mine. And a good source and means of communicating.
You know that all the words, the flirts, the chats are instruments to the moment of Truth. That Moment is when we meet. When we stand before one another for the first time. Presumably Naked.

One can prepare the ground only so much. I am an advocate of meeting. If you are clear and confident of your purpose here, on this site, then you must accept and be willing to share the the uncertainty, excitement and risk of meeting a "new" person of interest. Yes, a Stranger. But in that context remember. We came into this world alone and will likely leave it in the same fashion. Everyone in this world that is now a library of who we "know" was at one time a Stranger.
Is this any different? Really.

I'm looking for you, human, imperfect and as each of us fragile.
Fear too often leaves us too long unrealized. I know. I've been there.
I want to shed fears. That I may live and love ever moving forward.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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