Married and missing so much. I have a wife I love very much who is asexual and has health issues. Looking for a completely discreet playmate. My situation is not for everyone but it might be for some. Maybe you are in the same situation. No drugs please. Clean is an absolute. I am fit and active. However, the size and age of my playmate does not matter. Connection matters. Open to exploring most things; I am highly educated. PS I’m not desperate for sex, so no pushy people please. Kindness is sexy and goes a long ways.

My Ideal Person Someone who is as comfortable around me as they are by themselves. Accepts both of us for who we are and the situation for what it is. Fun to be around by not taking life too seriously in their free time.